One of my favorite books is Tiny Beautiful Things by Cheryl Strayed. I recently read it again because I needed it. This woman is full of gems. I love how she handles the questions that she is asked.
This quote comes from a much longer response she gave to someone, in the book. I think it's perfect. Life is unfair, bad things happen, the circumstances are really ideal or perfect but you just kind of have to get on with it.